Henrietta Lavoy, or Etta as she was commonly known, was the 8th child in Achan and Mary Ann Lavoy’s brood. She was born on July 6, 1856 in Sand Point, and grew up on the farm in the Renfrew area. While I’ve yet to have found her record of birth, the date is given on later censuses and is documented by other family members.
I have found her on the 1871 federal census of Canada at age 15, where she is listed as attending school along with her younger brother James (12), sister “Amie” (10) and being supported by the labours of her parents and older siblings Annie (21), Peter (17) and William H. (17). This is the only census record I have currently located where Henrietta is living with her parents in Canada.
About 8 years later a marriage record signals her independence from the family. On the 30th of July, 1879, Henrietta (22) married a young bachelor named Francis O McDonald (21), son of Charles and Elizabeth McDonald. He was a “stove filter” from Toronto, likely doing heavy physical labour as her father and brothers had done. I wonder if his job might have been mis-spelled on this record…should it be “stove filler”? If any of my readers have an idea of what this job was or what it entailed please comment! Their marriage record lists “Stephen” (this is the second time I have seen Achan called “Stephen”) and Mary Lavoy as her parents.
Thus far in my research on Henrietta, I have been unable to find her until 1900. This ghost woman’s 20 year gap can be somewhat filled with information found on the United States Federal Census in Detroit (below). A little over one year after her marriage to Francis McDonald, Henrietta gave birth to her first child, a daughter named Emma McDonald (December 1881). Her second child, James E. McDonald, was born in August of 1883.
Whether or not Henrietta and Francis planned on growing their family we will never know. Francis disappears from the history, and my assumption is that sometime between 1883 and 1885 he died. I am still looking for his death record or any indication that he lived beyond this time. What I do know is that in 1885 Henrietta and her two children moved across the border to Michigan and that she remarried in 1897.
The above document shows the great transformation that took place after 1883 in Henrietta’s life. Here, she is three years into her second marriage with a patched-together family. She has been living in the United States for 15 years now, which means that she moved not long after the birth of her son James McDonald. She rented a house at 1391 Hastings street with family, an area that is now in this century a dilapidated industrial part of town, filled with abandoned warehouses and overpasses. Here she lived with her new husband, her two teenage children from the previous marriage, and a baby girl named Gladys E. Webber from her new marriage. Her second husband, Morton Webber, was born in Massachusetts and is much younger than she (only 29!). His work in the trades as a Wood Turner, and her daughter Emma’s labour (18) as a “wire worker”, supports the family of five. Again, I am unclear of what this work as a “wire worker” would have entailed, but in my searches I have found this title in both the jewelry trade and in the production of barbed wire.
This wasn’t the first major move for Henrietta and her family: in 1910 they had moved to Chicago, Cook County, Illinois. Morton (45) works in a chair factory to support his wife, Henrietta (now 48) and their daughter Gladys (11).
Where did Henrietta’s children Emma & James McDonald end up?
Emma likely married and started a family, although I have not yet tracked her down. Henrietta’s son, James, certainly did. He married in 1907 to a woman called Katherine and they stayed on Mornaby street in Wayne, Michigan. His job as a “laborator” in an auto factory supported the family: son Francis E. McDonald (named for his deceased grandfather) who was born in 1909 and daughters Lillian W. McDonald (born 1912) and Violet A. McDonald (born 1914). He may have had a larger family, but I have since tracked him only until 1920.

The lot where Henrietta Webber once lived (1920)
I have found the Webber family, again in 1920, living in Chicago at a rental home (number 544 North Kedzie Avenue). The house no longer stands (see photo, left), but it looks like it was a blossoming neighbourhood in 1920 where immigrants from Italy & Germany neighboured many others from Michigan. Morton (50) and Henrietta (56) are now living off his income as a cabinet maker in a nearby factory. Their daughter, Gladys (19) still lives at home and helps to contribute by working as a office stenographer.
Henrietta (70) and Morton Webber (60) stayed in Chicago. What is a more interesting turn in the story is the living arrangement that they had with daughter Gladys. The census reveals that the family is now 3 generations living under one roof for a monthly rent of $65/month. Gladys E. Webber (28) is married and has a daughter named Henrietta (2 years, 6 months old) for her grandmother. Gladys’ husband is her half cousin, William Lavoy (43) who recently came to the USA in 1920. This means that Gladys then became a Lavoy, like her mother!
At this time, Morton still made cabinets and furniture, and Gladys continued to work as a stenographer for an insurance company. William Lavoy was a general carpenter and may have worked alongside his father-in-law. They must have lived this way, with their daughter, son-in-law and grandaughter, until the end of their lives. Henrietta (76) passed away on April 18, 1838, and was buried at Woodlawn cemetery in Proviso, Cook County. On her death record her parents are listed as “Aiken” and Mary Ann Mackay. Morton (66) followed soon behind, and in on December 3, 1940 he was buried at her side.
I would love to find the descendants of this family. If you know of them or you are a member, please don’t be shy to comment!























